About socializing, today

About socializing, today

  I begin with a quote from a leaflet Alevia received yesterday, in a cute "box" :

"The quality of thought determines the quality of life

Thoughts are living things, little beam of energy. Often we do not think the quality of our thoughts , however , the quality of thoughts determines the quality of life. A strong mind, disciplined , cultivated day by day, can do miracles . If you want to live your life fully, you must take care of our own thoughts : the most valuable possessions of yours . In fact, you begin to unlock the true potential of your mind and live in the way that you want, only when you learn to control your thoughts and imagine everything you want in this life .

How we see the world ?

We don’t see the world as it is, but as we are. I mean we understand the world around us through the fears, limitations, false assumptions and prejudices we have. Once cleared the window through which we see the world, we will experience a lot of possibilities . This idea can change our lives in the way we think while determining reality."

Yesterday I was talking about the importance of the profile photo to a social networking site, any site ... The people who have the same name ( I have myself enough similars "Angela Ghinea" in this big world, some in my little country, some abroad) appear the danger to give friedship to others who have not thought too clean ... Especially without having a personal photo, how do you know it's the boyfriend / girlfriend from your high school? Well, you do not know ...

You can see the photo of a Hollywood actor, well known. So, I am sure that Marinica, our Romanian doesn’t look like Brad Pit, that's guaranteed!

Likewise, ladies, you can not accept “to add” a woman which  at her profile photo displays a nice picture of Angelina Jolie, for example. We talked about her lovely husband ... :)

Cases and cases ...

Recently I saw at Google+ that some people have added  me at their circles. Common in recent months. From the huge no. of notifications, half are with people who add me to their circles . Good for them ! If they want to know about what I post, I can’t stop them .

But let's say his name is John Smith and the profile is a photo of a super girl! What to believe? He's a fan of her ? As if relevant  ...

Or the opposite, her name is Angelina and it has as profile photo her husband... If I’m taking after this "fashion" should I put the photo of my dear husband instead mine ... Perhaps one from his work-journey, maybe one from Kenya. 

And speaking of socialization and sites that offer this with a great success, let us consider what kind of profile types exists:

1. Those who posts with something they found interesting recently or read in any blog recently. I like this kind of persons. I “see” them, I "feel" what kind of people seems to be. Yes, " appear to be ", because you can not guarantee if you do not know him/her personally :)

I read the posts, this habit is rare nowadays, now it’s  a fashion to give “plusses” or “likes”, that’s all. Without reading the content ... Old story for you who know me, know my opinions ... Better shut up :)

2. Another situation shows those who do both : their own posts and the reshare of the closest friends posts. It's very useful to reshare the friends posts. You can promote them, their ideas, opinions. Good. And seeing this posts, we "see " what kind of people it is. What he/she is.

3. What exasperates me (and those who do this I do not want to add to my circles, even if I added them ones and at a time I removed them from my list) is the abundance of posts redistributed. Some users unconsciously distribute images from other friends of them, but not common sense, from ten-twenty of a day… Maybe more.

Yes, I said Fine. I've had enough , it's full “the google+” of them. Are also useful, nothing to say, but ... still . I'm tired of seeing pictures full of “glam”, with moving stars, lines etc. Some gifs I like, but most seem "gypsy" style, you know that clothes "their" have many color combinations that scare any normal eye ...

These people I believe that are sore sympathetic imitators  without personal ideas. They  do what someone say to them. Perfect “listeners”. If I ever see them in real life I'm sure I will confirm what I thought ...

Maybe the are hiding in their shell ! How they want...

4. I have a circle of people who "write". They blog from now or sooner. And I read them. Rarely you can see photos to them. But writing content matter ... their soul .

Dusting thoughts and ideas on paper, more recently on a word file, then moved to a blog post; they manage to create something. Like the users which show us images from their usual daily way, or propose a beautiful song, this is what can feed your soul with energy...

I like to read. And to write. I have written all my life . I have put on paper long poems with rhyme, in my last travels by train (weekly travels to college) or SF stories (inspired by night dreams). And others. Letters . Yes, there was old times when we used letters on paper ... With drawings, text, envelope and a stamp bought from post office:) :)

It may seem strange, but I had written many stories. Too bad that they went away... I did not kept them, thinking that they are not good for anything. Now I'm sorry that I have no longer them, to see “me” then ... Probably lacked me the courage to improve and send to a magazine. There were times of "Ceausescu"… Don’t worry, I’ll write others... I have in work two beautiful sci-fi , lived in my “nocturnal travels”.

5. There is another category, almost to forget it: girls and guys while normal posts. And at a time you see that they start with an other style and I say to them "out" and "good bye " ... Why? Well if they put “dirty” pictures ? If they begin to appreciate the naked women in various poses not realize that violate google laws? If not, I remind him that I block them and report them, declaring his profile to site administrators. Or her ... if have this habits :)

Notice for those which have such " habits ": bypass me, because I'm not part of the “viewers”. If you do not want to be "Out" from google, be careful ...

           Maybe there are other categories, surely ... But don’t come to my mind now. All I know is that it's good for the mind and soul to be creative ...

I was talking about google+. It has circles which contains people and people ... Some people I know them “forever”, it’s over two years ... It's like we're a google+ family.

You can drink a coffee while reading what they wrote, or while you look at their photos. Listening to music created by users, which I really like. And I’m relaxing. This is why I use social networks.

          So I prefer honesty , beauty, beautiful words, not those that hurt the soul, we are too injured with daily problems of life ... I salute you with respect and thank you!

Take care of you and your family, and continue to show us the beautiful parts of life here in socializing site . The problems come and go, without realizing it :)
One of their English songs... They have many in Romanian DJ Project

If we want we can be good people ... If we want ...